Hi,
So I don't want this to be a pity party, but honestly, right now, I'm feeling rather pathetic.
I'm a mid 30's SAHM who for the past 15/20 years has basically hidden away. Not taken any opportunities, because quite frankly, everything terrifies me. I don't believe in myself. I feel like it's too late and I've thrown it all away.
When I say I don't have friends, I mean I don't have anyone I could pop round to see for a coffee or glass of wine. I have a few friends I chat to over text and maybe meet up with once a year or so, but that's it. I sometimes feel like I've forgotten how to talk to people.
My dsis lives close by, but she'll be moving hours away soon and then I will have no one.
I am lucky that financially, I don't have to work. I really do understand that, but it hit me like a brick last night. I am utterly miserable and so painfully lonely and lost. I cried buckets and felt dark.
I feel like my life is just passing me by and I don't do anything about it! I just get through day to day, looking after my dd who might only be living here for another few years (mid teens) and then I'll be even more broken. I can't even think about when that day comes.
I was desperate to have more dc but the fact is, we can't and I don't actually think I've properly accepted and processed that tbh. Dp wants us just to be thankful for what we have and just look forward to a different future, but although I try, I can't.
I would love to work. Have a real, meaningful and fulfilling career, but I really am terrified. My anxiety is through the roof and I've had lots of CBT therapy. I feel like I've got all the tools I need to help, but then over time I just seem to end up back to square 1...square 0 actually.
I just don't know what to do or where to even start. My confidence is on the floor. I've been out the loop for so long.
I really need to do something. I don't want to waste any more time feeling like this.
I can't.
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No friends. No direction. No f@#$ing life.
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Espressojunkie · 03/05/2021 09:20
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