Tegan Dyson is 8 and was the subject of homophobic bullying at primary school after wanting to play with the girls.
www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/it-made-sick-wear-boys-11329175
'Before it made me feel sick to put a boy's uniform on and at school they called me 'gay' and a Barbie girl.
"I told them I wasn't gay – I was a girl. But they just said 'being a girl is gay!'”
As Tegan grew up, it quickly became clear the youngster wasn't interested in playing with typical "boys' toys". Instead, she loved dresses and dolls.
"When she was starting to make her own decisions, she refused to play with boys' toys. She has never played with cars or anything like that," explained her mum.
"She would get them for Christmas and throw them across the room."
"She'd say to me: "Throw it". She never played with them. She wanted a kitchen. Then she wanted a doll and a pram. They were the things that she wanted."
Fascinated with makeup, Tegan would watch Michelle getting ready to go out. She also adored her own Barbie collection and loved mermaids.
And she would often put a tea towel on her head to pretend she had long hair.
One day, she said she heard the youngster talking into a plastic phone, saying she wanted to marry One Direction. "I thought she might be gay," she said.
But then, early last year, she received a phone call from school to say that Tegan had lost her temper because someone had called her gay.
"She broke down and said, 'I'm not gay, I want to be a girl,' she recalled of the incident. "In her eyes, she thought she was a girl. She always saw herself as a girl."
"She didn't have friends as a boy. She wanted to play with the girls, but the boys couldn't understand a boy that wanted to play girl games.
"She didn't want to play rough and tumble."
"She's very girly. It's all dresses," said Michelle.
"In a way, she's kind of a little bit behind the girls at school.... she wants everything sparkly, glam... they're going a bit tomboy now.
"She wears a full schoolgirl's uniform to school."
Today, Tegan dreams of becoming a film star. When she's older, she also hopes to marry a boy and have children.
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