I was debating this with a friend the other day. She said she likes being beeped or whistled at, it's a compliment.
I really don't understand how any woman can feel flattered by it. Do they not realise that the men doing it don't actually fancy them and do it to anyone with a vagina?
My own experience of catcalling has been horrendous. I've been getting beeped, whistled and hollered at since I was 12-13 years old, I've been honked at with my mother, with my children, had obscenities shouted from van windows. The men doing it often do it from behind and have no way of knowing if they're doing it to a woman or a child. They have no way of knowing if the woman will feel embarrassed or intimidated.
Personally I believe men do it to embarrass and control women, to put them in their place, and often to make fun of them.
I can just about understand a woman not being offended, but how on earth can you be flattered?
What's the mindset there?
I watched a documentary on it recently and a woman walked around London for 4 hours, she endured hundreds of unwanted comments and even a man photographing her bum fgs.
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Wolf whistling, how can it be a compliment?
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Kalizahara · 17/04/2017 00:41
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