For the second year running my 17year old son is not wanting to come on holiday with us. He doesn't want to leave his girlfried (new one to last year btw) so wants to stay home.
We have no family here. His dad had him staying over last year at £200 babysitting money for week but this year is refusing. He has no overnights either and little contact now.
Ds dad has offered to pop over 'sometimes'. My best friend will be on end of phone if ds needs anything. His dad is bleating on about our baby being left alone but wont have him anyway.
I don't know what to do. The options right now seem to be me staying home and dp and my 16 year old going on holiday without me (dp not keen as he's only a step dad and worried). Other option would be asking sons friends and parents for sofa surfing options and maybe asking his girlfriends parents for a couple of nights.
We need a break. Partner has had a very busy work year, little time together so he needs to go. Younger son is doing GCSes and has had to work very hard due to disabilities so could do with a break. I have a heart condition and am not feeling well mentally at moment so could use a break as well.
What should I do? Forcing older son in car will not work as he is likely to get violent. He's a good kid really but has a nasty temper when forced to do things he doesn't want. Another thing to add is that he is likely to have to resit year 12 as he is likely to have failed his math a level.
Sorry it's long. Didn't want to drip feed .
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littlemissangrypants · 27/05/2017 11:37
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