oh woe is me -advice for apples didnt work!!!!

[guffaux]

I am a size 16-18 apple, have the most unfortunately huge swollen and gross abdomen [embarassed]

I bought an empire line dress hoping it would do me for christmas works do, christmas day and other 'dos' = it looked truly awful- dp (who loves me, whatever shape I am) plucked up courage to tell me the dress made me look old and frumpy.

I'm 5' 3, definitely apple (am 5'5" , 13 st and look ready to give birth) am grey (which I actually love!) pale, and totally lost fashion-wise

please please help- I have a works do with glamorous and svelte colleagues -I've paid £45 deposit, with £60 to pay!!! - WHAT am I going to wear?? its cocktail dress code.

[UntilTheCowsComeHome]

Im the same height and have a big belly too. Having to wear a dress would be my worst nightmare.

How are your legs? Mine are truly awful so would never get them out but a lot of apple shapes have good legs, do you feel happy to get yours out?

[UntilTheCowsComeHome]

The shape of this dress is good.

[UntilTheCowsComeHome]

Don't know how I managed to post 2 pics the same.

[guffaux]

I look like a huge cloud in 'cocoon' and draped shapes. lower legs are ok (if I wear opaques, I have a varicose vein!) but have chunky knees.

I love tailored and androgynous looks, but cant carry them off - channelling demis roussos is probably my safest bet I could probably manage the beard!!! dratted menopause (and poor grooming to be fair)

[UntilTheCowsComeHome]

Could you get away with a gorgeous trouser suit to your fancy do? Men wear suits after all.

Wide leg trousers, cami style top and the right cut jacket can look amazing.

[guffaux]

trousers would be my go to option - dress has been decreed for christmas day though

[UntilTheCowsComeHome]

Hmm, how about one of them really full maxi skirts with a shirt? They look lovely. Off to find a pic...

[UntilTheCowsComeHome]

Something like this?

[RonaldMcDonald]

Apples in empire can look preggo
You poor thing

[RonaldMcDonald]

What about a wrap dress. I know not exciting but easy to wear and flattering?

[cranberryx]

I really like this one, but most advice about apple shape women always says to try and enthasise the waist.

I would recommend looking at some of the dresses on Asos - they look lovely!

m.asos.com/mt/www.asos.com/missguided-plus/missguided-plus-velvet-raglan-sleeve-swing-dress/prod/pgeproduct.aspx?iid=5969089&clr=Black&SearchQuery=Plus+size+dress&pgesize=50&pge=0&totalstyles=866&gridsize=2&gridrow=6&gridcolumn=1

[RonaldMcDonald]

This with opaque

[RonaldMcDonald]

sequinned and tunicy might be naice

[RonaldMcDonald]

Or some sequin leggings a nice tshirt/shirt and a black jacket

[80sWaistcoat]

www.phase-eight.com/fcp/product/phase-eight/dresses/helena-dress/203092417

www.phase-eight.com/fcp/product/phase-eight/dresses/fabia-fit-and-flare-dress/203073691

www.phase-eight.com/fcp/product/phase-eight/dresses/odette-grosgrain-dress/202851731

www.phase-eight.com/fcp/product/phase-eight/dresses/everleigh-mesh-dress/203115751


All have waists and lovely necklines ...

[80sWaistcoat]

www.phase-eight.com/fcp/product/phase-eight/dresses/kylie-metallic-wrap-dress/203253065

[hollinhurst84]

You might hate these but...
Different colours available too on the site

https://ladyvlondon.com/Violet-Rose-Marilyn-Dress/#.VkqMHoqQGnM

https://ladyvlondon.com/Winter-Butterfly-Border-Phoebe-Dress/#.VkqMI4qQGnM

I have this one (bow is removable and it's really flattering
https://ladyvlondon.com/Teal-Green-Butterfly-Isabella-Dress/#.VkqMhIqQGnM

[MrsCampbellBlack]

I'm an apple and find wrap dresses unflattering and also anything that draws attention to my waist - as I just don't have one really.

A tunic style works well on me so something like this.

I also find that often a skirt and top can be more flattering - I have this jumper in navy which I wore recently with a leather skirt and opaques and shoeboots when out - it looked good I think

The other option which would be flattering but isn't a dress is cigarette trousers, a silky top and then an evening coat cut slim but to just above your knees. This would streamline you and could look very elegant.

These sort of overlay dresses can also work well on apples.

Do you have time/access to a good department store and a personal shopper at all?

[MrsCampbellBlack]

this shape also works well on me. It comes in under the boobs where I'm fairly small but skims the rest.

[herecomesthsun]

loose fitting with sequins

black overlay

purple overlay

[Dowser]

Can I offer another suggestion. Please don't think I'm being rude but I'm responding to your first line.

Do you think you might have a wheat allergy? Even if you are not sure this will help. If you cut out all wheat, flour based breads, pastas, pizzas, sauces etc I guarantee you can loose a lot of that bloating relatively quickly.

I used to have very swollen legs and tummy. So much so I couldn't wear certain shoes and now I can wear anything. I cut out wheat and I have skinny legs now and my tum has gone down loads.

Have you got one to two weeks till the do? This is not my advice it's from dr William Davis the author of wheat belly.

Wheat has been altered to increase its yield. It used to be one four feet high crop a year. Now farmers are getting two , two feet high and our bodies cannot cope with the changes. Some of us do not digest it properly and make us bloat out .

Apologies if I'm on the wrong track. You may be gluten free already.

I always have a protein breakfast. Omelette cooked in coconut oil with a bit of onion added. I have a green soup with lentils or ham in for lunch and dinner is protein, veg and carbohydrate. Usually whole grain rice or sweet potato . We don't eat potato at home and I've also cut out sugar for other health reasons. I don't substitute wheat with gluten free products either. You're not meant to do that.

Anyway just a thought.
Here's his site if you want to take a look.

www.wheatbellyblog.com/

[SwedeDreams]

Two weeks of slim and save, that will really reduce your stomach size. Then 1950s dress with bolero. I am pretty much the same size as you and having to do this at the moment!

[SoConfused15]

Also worth investing in some shape wear-Spanx or similar. Makes a dress look sooo much better if you are a tad floppy of belly like me :)

[herecomesthsun]

grey

[madmomma]

What a cracking, supportive thread. Am keeping this to refer back to. I think there's a difference between having a large belly that sticks forward, and having a thick waist too, and the latter is harder ( I know) My belly is more spread out and doughy than pot, and I am naturally thick waisted even when skinny. So anything that tries to create a waist only emphasises what cannot be there. I've found heavy sequinned fabrics surprisingly flattering, so long as the shape is loose. I love the lk Bennett dress Mrs C linked to.