Am almost 43
Have had long hair all my life.. not super long but always varying between just below shoulder length to just above nipple... always thought it suited me, others say the same...
Usually I have long length layers in it
Hair is thin and always has been (but thicker now than when was a teen) but quite a lot of it. Can get lank..greasy roots and dry ends, need to wash every other day to avoid the flat greasy crown look
But... as I get older the ends have got so thin, wispy and fragile
They end up breaking
It's annoying as I do all the right things... no heat (not even hairdryer) no appliances, often sleep with conditioner on overnight, use Amla oil, morrocan etc.. to no avail .
So, I caught sight of myself today in Superdrug mirror... horrors. Hair aged me so badly.. I looked like a bedraggled scarecrow with long straggly limp ends. Got myself straight to a hairdresser.. who criticised me for lack of hair care (not true! read above) and cut it all to just below chin length. Choppy layers, looks a lot better, thicker and healthy. Basically a long bob style, I have fringe also. (is this a frumpy style? ie long layered bob? I have round face and I think it's more flattering than the long thin strands)
So I guess that's it, then? Good bye to long hair forever? She said it's always going to get to a certain length then just break.
Is this just an age thing?
My skin is still 'young' but it seems I have hair of a 90 year old even though only about 3 grey hairs (literally 3 single hairs of grey). Has anyone else had this? I'd understand if abused my hair but I really do so little to it. I get colour applied to roots and down the length but not to the ends.
Really going to be hard to get used to.. perhaps liberating.. I feel i was hiding behind long hair for much of adult life
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Should I give up on long hair completely? (breaking, thin ends)
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alltoomuchrightnow · 27/02/2014 22:56
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