My first post on Mumsnet. But feel so upset and would welcome your thoughts. Divorced mum of three - husband had an affair. He is still with the same woman now. My kids see their dad regularly and stay with him and the gf and her child. She has been challenging - needy and jealous of me. She seems to be resentful of the money my ex pays for his three kids. Even though both her and the ex husband earn their own money. It was my daughter's 17th birthday and she had dinner with her father and his gf. Gf started haranguing her about the fact that she will be 18 next year and then she will be on her own financially and so she needed to think about getting a job! Ex husband tried to intervene and point out that this issue hadn't been discussed yet and also that she needed to tone it down a bit. My daughter started crying - at her own birthday dinner 😥😥😥
It seems my ex spoke to his gf later and she called up to apologise. This isn't the first incident - she had made my kids cry before. Shouting at them and telling them off for stuff that isn't their fault. But to make my daughter cry on her birthday just has totally tipped me over the edge 😥😥
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Connect with other Mumsnetters here for step-parenting advice and support.
Step-parenting
Ex husband's gf made my daughter cry on her birthday
58 replies
Bembridge124 · 17/08/2019 09:10
OP posts:
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.