My dp has a 15 year old daughter who lives with her mum full time. We are in the process of moving so we have room for her. He pays full maintenance.
We have taken her on 2 holidays this year, her mum has taken her on none (she has been on 3 with her bf this year).
Dp’s ex has asked us to contribute to a holiday for dsd next summer with her friend and her friends mum. We were happy to do this until we were told the price. The cost is £900! So we are expected to pay £450. We cannot afford this as well as moving house. Plus we expected a Holliday to be somewhere cheap. I don’t know where they’re going where a 15 year old costs £900 plus spending money (which we’d need to contribute to as well) but this is more than we’d pay for our own luxury holiday every few years.
What do you think? Do we scrape the money together to pay for this? He has another child and I have another child so dsd is not an only child.
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pinkhorse · 19/11/2017 19:24
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