DS (5.11 yrs) decided a while ago that he wanted me to cut his hair at home "like daddy". Therefore I use clippers for a number 5 all over.
He cannot tolerate tickling at all and he finds the hair falling on him from the haircut absolutely intolerable :( Yesterday was awful as I had only done one side of his hair, blowing the hair away as I went and he then got into a complete screaming state about it. There was no way that I could leave it like that as the other side was really really long and he would get teased at school. Therefore we tried strong pressure hugs while DH finished and we now still have longer on one side but much better hair cut.
However when we last took him to the barbers (about a year ago now), he was fine with the whole thing even though they use clippers, the hair falls, they also wrap him up so the hair can't go too far etc etc
He does has Sensory Modulation Dysfunction which explains his reaction at home but why would he be able to cope in the barbers? Saying that, it was a year ago so it is possible that he might now not be able to cope..... for example he was dry at night this time last year and sleeping through until a reasonable time and now........ :(
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Can anyone shed light on why a home haircut causes huge distress and meltdown and barbers doesn't?
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Ben10isthespawnofthedevil · 26/05/2011 06:51
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