DD is 15 days old. She is a very placid busby and a good sleeper generally.
However, she goes through a restless time every night between about midnight and 3am where she will not settle.
The obvious answer is bf, but by that time, she has fed fussily for so long that there is nothing left. Also due to her slow growth the MW is having us do EBM top ups after every feed, so after her midnight feed there really is nothing left. The MW has also said I shouldn't let her "use me as a dummy" ie not just play suck if not feeding. Also due to growth issues we are doing formula top ups too so when she is put down at this time, she has everything in my breasts and formula.
So I don't think (??) it is hunger.
Right now, I don't know what else to do so am just settling her next to me, talking to her, stroking her, and getting little 20min driblets of sleep when she goes off for a bit.
This goes on for a couple of hours till I feel there is milk again.
Is that the right thing to do or am I somehow not meeting her needs? :(
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RevoltingPeasant · 07/02/2015 08:33
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