Ok, so I have joined an online dating site for the first time ever.
Emailed lots of men and some sounded nice enough, others ideal and some really weird; usual story I suppose.
The first guy to message me was 37, never married, no kids and said he loved my pic and told me a bit about himself. We had absolutely nothing in common and he was short (a complete deal breaker for me)and on paper sounded completely unsuitable but his email was interesting and funny.
We sent a single email each day just really saying 'how is your search going?' and exchanging funny stories about the people who had contacted us.
Two weeks ago we had a conversation over about 10 emails and I realised I really liked him
Since then we have been texting each other a couple of times during the day and MSNing at night til the early hours. He is so funny and interesting with impeccable manners and old fashioned values.
The thing that has struck me about him is that he won't allow the conversation to become flirty and quickly changes the subject if I do. This is so alien to me.
Anyway last night the conversation drifted to him telling me he had only ever had one sexual partner He said that he wouldn't have admitted that to anyone but felt that he could tell me anything. I asked him why that was and he said that growing up in the 80's with Aids and HIV had made him causious and then he had only had one long term relationship in his adult life.
I told him that it didn't matter to me but that I was a very sexual person and asked if he was too.He said that he hadn't really had the oppotunity to find out but that sex was a very long way down the line for us as he believes in waiting til the relationship is solid and 'going somewhere' before indulging.
Now this guy has his own house (bought as a shell and he has completely rebuilt it)a good job and many hobbies that he is passionate about.
He wants to get the train up to see me on Monday (that's another thing, he doesn't drive ) and is very excited at seeing my city and getting to know me better.
Does he sound ok to you?
Am I the odd one thinking that all men want sex whether in or out of a relationship?
Why has he only had sex with one person although has had a couple of other girlfriends?
Am I going to look like a right slapper if I flirt with him?
Help ladies
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Met someone new, does he sound ok to you?
brazenhussy · 19/06/2009 14:17
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