Why would he do this? We have the internet here? Why would he pay to do this rather than just use our broadband? It cost him £20 last month for 10 downloads, is that a standard cost? or he is downloading something dodgy?
Strange times of the day though?
My immediate reaction (I feel sick) is to be suspicious.
I cant get hold of him so have emailed him at work (I know) to ask what its about.
I know he is going to be cross that I opened his mobile bill. I wish I hadn't but as a result of something on mumsnet, which we had a conversation about, I got suspicious because he was so "on side" with the bloke (who was in the wrong).
There is a bit of history. DH has used sex lines in the past. I know some people might be ok with that but i am not and we almost split up.
I mentioned this last week and he actually denied speaking to someone on the other end, although I know he did, he is trying to make me "remember" differently. He also said it was a "different life", it was only 3 years ago. Again, mumsnet topic made me think of it.
There was something else that I was worried about 18 months ago as our car was seen in a dodgy area but I believed him that he was just smoking. I think I still believe this, I just feel confused.
Sorry if this isnt making sense. I feel sick
If he is downloading dodgy videos then I cant be ok with that, he knows that.
Things havent been brilliant since DD arrived (8 months old) but last night we had a big talk about making an effort etc and I felt really positive. I just dont know why he would be downloading the internet on to his phone.
Am I just paranoid, he could be checking email or something????
He even did it at 5am on our holiday, he had gone a drive to try to get our DD back to sleep.
I shouldnt have looked at the bill, I know. I just wanted to look to check that he doesnt still call sex lines, because of how he reacted when I spoke about it.
It might be nothing????? He will now fall out with me for opening the bill anyway - I do open most bills but not the phone one.
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