Where to start...
Have been together 4 years, have 6mnth old , i dont work , gave up under his instructions before LO born. He has v good job but v stressful job with a top salary but seems to think due to this he can do what he likes.
So much to say but briefly...
Since LO born things dont seem to be working, from day one i was told he had never known anyone milk something so much because i was in so much pain from forceps delivery and crying in pain when walking getting out of bed etc..,
when LO 6 weeks old goes out on lash strip club comes home 4 am rude to me says he doesnt want to fk me that i am fat ugly and disgusting which is why he went. This behaviour and digs continue with him screaming at me he would rather have a page 3 girl than me..
Over the next 3/4 months He has spates of weeks of being nice then a one off night of drinking and aggressiveness towards me.
Recently its got to the point where he is going to strip clubs almost everyweek coming home with glitter all over him some nights not coming home at all and not caring that its hurting me instead he screams at me that i am useless that i cant call myself a housewife as i am rubbish and that noone would have me if i left him and i should be grateful as in his eyes i live a WAG lifestyle and he is in the top 5% of eligble men in the UK, basicly because he finacially supports me.. i dont have a joint account with him i get an allowance which i use to buy all the household grocerys baby stuff including LO s clothes and i pay a portion of the household bills, I say I am going to go back to work then and he takes the ps out of me saying i could never work again all i would earn is 40 quid a week, i had a job paying 40k before and i still own my own flat which i rent out.. I dont want to work as i want to look after my son soley as he claims to want
I am really at the end of my teather as i feel that although he is not physically abusive mentally and verbally he is and he does not understand what life is like looking after a baby and i am fed up of him being so awful to me just because he finacially supports me last night he tore up a shirt because i had not sewn buttons on to it and then screamed at me because i forgot to take his dry cleaning in.. how is this fair or am i being ridiculous and should i just get on with it?
I have tried talking to him but he tells me its all PR that goes with his job and that if i leave he doesnt care and will get a 20yr old size 6 girlfriend to look after him..
Also i have got back to my pre pregnancy figure and weight but still he acts like this.. Thanks for listening to this rant.
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Fed up with DPs behaviour
nikki7984 · 12/09/2008 09:09
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