I kissed a girl and I liked it... Do you think DP will mind?

[mamadiva]

Basically all in the title HELP!!

[olympicsnotfederer]

maybe, maybe not

[LynetteScavo]

er....yes.

[Mamazon]

well it depends on the kiss.

was it a "were drunk lets have a laugh" kiss or a "ooh im a bit drunk and i find you quite attractive" kiss or a "ooh we have just kissed and i dont want to stop" kinda kiss.

the first one i would say most guys would forgive. the second some guys would quite like to watch...the third....hmmmm depends on the guy in question.

[mamadiva]

I don't know what to tell him!?! Should I tell him?

[duke748]

Did you like the taste of her cherry chapstick?

[zippitippitoes]

it depends whether you p-lan to repeat it etc

as you liked it then maybe you will

really its the same as kissing a guy isnt it

[TequilaMockinBird]

[mamadiva]

Sorry Duke?

[solidgoldbrass]

Depends a lot on your DP and your relationship with him. Some heterosexual people find a partner's flirtation with a same-sex OP much less of a problem than a heterosexual flirtation...

OK at the risk of getting utterly tangled up in pronouns I am going to use the ones relevatn to the OP but please bear in mind that everything I'm going to say applies ABSOLUTELY EQUALLY to women who's male partners have flirted with other men, and same sex partners who have been flirting with heterosexuality. Here are the most important questions, which the OP obviously doesn't have to answer on line but should think about.

Has the OP been wondering about her own orientation for some time, or was this just aspell of pop-culture-induced curiosity?

Does she think her orientation might have changed or be changing?

Is her relationship with her DP a very monogamous one (no flirting, no being alone with a member of the oppostie sex ever - oops that might get a bit complicated now) or a more open one or has it never been discussed?

Does she want to see the other girl again/will she be seeing the other girl again because the other girl is a friend or colleage?

What did/does the other girl think about it all?

[olympicsnotfederer]

are you really some clever daft bint whose pervy savvy manager has found a niche in the pop market and is going to make a mint out of it ?

[zippitippitoes]

as far as it affecting your relationship is concerned if it is just a drunken snog then no dont tell him and reign yourself in next time

[VeniVidiVickiQV]

Dont make it wrong, dont make it right. Dont mean you're in love tonight.

[HuwEdwards]

what do you think?

[mamadiva]

Duke you are the second person to say that today. My cousin said it too I don't get it!!!

It wasn't planned it just kind of happened but TBH I think it's building up for years now it was with a very good friend and we were just dancing with each other in a club and it kind of happened!

[hughjarssss]

Did you like it, are you planning on doing it again, why did you do it in the first place?

I only ask as the answers depend on whether you should tell you're DP, IMO

[olympicsnotfederer]

goodness me

it didn't take long for sgb to come along with a very reasoned response

not a crap piss-take like some of the others (mine included)

[zippitippitoes]

he might say why couldnt you have done it when i was there

[VeniVidiVickiQV]

reference to katie perry?

[olympicsnotfederer]

[olympicsnotfederer]

lol VVV

[cheesesarnie]

how do you think he'd feel?
how would you feel if it was him instead of you?

[olympicsnotfederer]

its very popular to snog your female mates these days

blatant fucking man-pleasing if you ask me, by silly bints

(and perhaps you shouldn't ask me, cos I've had a wine or two )

[zippitippitoes]

truly it depends what he and you are like

if my boyfriend kissed a guy or a girl i would be hurt

[olympicsnotfederer]

I shall leave this thread, before I am hounded off this thread as being homophobic or summat...

[olympicsnotfederer]

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