DP's wife ended their marriage two years ago after having an affair with a colleague. I have been seeing him for 7 months (So not really a DP more of a boyfriend!)
Initially, she took me for coffee, said he was her best friend and wished us well. Over time she has become colder towards me which is fine. She resents the time he spends with me now that the man she left for has gone back to his wife. I understand it's awkward and she is hurt and feels it's unfair.
But now she has told DP she wants to meet me again to warn me about him. They are still negotiating their divorce settlement and she is accusing him of having an affair with me and of financial abuse and emotional abuse. The affair thing is nonsense. I know them both quite well, know their families and kids etc. My instinct tells me she hot-headed, unreasonable and lying...but what if I'm wrong?! What signs of these things would I see?
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DP's ex wants to speak to me to warn me
KevinKlineSwoon · 16/10/2019 16:57
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