I just had to end things with a man I was seeing for a few months because he was losing interest and played the classic 'I don't want a relationship card'.
Every time I try dating and I meet someone I like it follows a similar pattern. Meet, they want to date for a few months, then it ends with me wanting more and them not. I'd say in the last few years, this has happened to me maybe 10+ times.
I can't transition from dating to relationship and I don't understand why.
The latest guy I thought I did it all right. Held out 8 dates for sex, didn't seem to keen, kept expectations low, yet still it's failed.
I don't know what's wrong with me and how to change.
Other people I know meet someone, they both like each other then seem confident it will end up a relationship and it does.
I can never have this because I just know it will go wrong - and it does!
What am I doing so wrong? Btw I'm 29.
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Why am I never good enough to be relationship material?
christmaslog · 18/12/2017 18:02
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