Wise mnetters, I am so utterly useless with men, having been single for 10 years. That I need your help!
I met someone in my new job, back in April. He was also new and I would sometimes see him on the way in and we would walk and chat. I'm so awkward around men if I think there might be something there... so I took to hiding to avoid him. When I did next see him I got a huge , unexpected hug and I felt ok that he might like me and was more open. This went on for a while, nice chats, bit of affection but he didn't ask me out and so I assumed that was just his culture ( he is itallian) and he was being friendly. I felt slightly embarrassed that o had thought it could be anything more and just stopped thinking about it. I've only seen him for maybe 10 mins, in passing, since the summer.
Anyway, I was very surprised on Friday, to get a Facebook friend request off him. I don't know how he found me as I have no idea how he knew my last name. I accepted and he asked me if I would like to get drinks together sometime. I said it would be great, next weekend? And just got a thumbs up and a heart emoji.
And that's it.
That was saturday.
What do I do now? I feel like maybe it was as friends? And why hasn't he chatted to me more? I am so useless with men and am terrified of looking like an idiot.
Please help !
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I've been asked out in real life, but am rubbish, help!
Quiddichcup · 13/11/2017 10:04
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