I have been with my partner for 8 and a half years, with 2 children (his son from a previous relationship, and our daughter) however both kids live with us.
In 8 years I have been out without him on an evening about 4 times - even then it's been concerts with my mother/sisters and/or the kids. Never been out with friends or out drinking with family, I'm 25 years old.
I have been faithful and I am always putting his and the kids' needs well above my own.
I work 6 days a week, however I am a carer - if a service user goes into hospital - I don't always have other calls in place of the ones I lose.
Every time my phone rings - he asks me who it is, there is times my phone has been in a different room and started ringing - he has asked me before I've left his side who it is and when I reply and say I'm not magic how would I know and he hits the roof saying I'm being cheeky!
If I come home earlier than usual - he thinks I haven't been where I said I was or if I come home late, quizzes me on where I have been.
He is constantly paranoid and it's becoming unbearable.
I don't know what to do.
His ex partner was a serial cheat but it's been 11 years since they split. I can't keep living in her shadow!
Sorry for venting but it's getting me down x
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KJPxx · 17/05/2017 18:55
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