My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years. He has had his own place now for over a year after his flatmate moved out. AIBU to be upset that he is now getting a female lodger in before asking me? He said hes doing it to help her out (its a girl he knows very distantly through a friend) as she is in the area for work. I told him i was upset that he would be happy for her to move in before asking me to move in. He said it was because the extra money would be nice and he wouldnt ask me for rent (despite me being perfectly happy to pay it) i am upset about it but im worried im being unreasonable by doing so. I would really appreciate your thoughts and if im being completely ridiculous.
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