So I have a gorgeous F.@k buddy. We both have busy lives and get to see each other usually monthly.
Last time we messaged FB asked when we would see each other again, he wanted to know would it be weeks/ months, I said I would buy him some cake for his birthday (that was about 7 weeks away at the time). He didn't respond to the message.... no big deal, I know he is still 'around'.
Anyway, the ball is now in his court isn't it?
Or do I text and wish him a happy birthday and ask him out for cake? I feel like he isn't interested in a woman who chases which makes me not want to text BUT it's s significant birthday so I don't want to seem like a cold bitch who wouldn't wish him happy birthday.
So.... do i text him with a simple happy birthday and leave it there? Or add an invitation for a coffee?
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Ball is in his court....or is it??
Frothyfreddie · 28/02/2017 22:59
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