I've posted about this guy before, a few weeks ago. We have been seeing each other a month now and had 7 dates, including 2 sleepovers/sex - but mainly just lovely stuff, loads of long conversations, questions, him initiating dates 1-2 times a week, all pretty good. He hasn't been a big texter, I generally hear from him every 1-2 days between dates, and he never calls. But he does consistently set stuff up.
We had a lovely evening on Sunday. He initially invited me to his but I declined as was pretty sure it would lead to sex and it's hard for me to get to work from where he lives on a Monday morning. So we met in town, had a lovely dinner and drinks, chatting/kissing for 6 hours. He put me on a bus home and said he would text me.
And since.. nothing!
I don't know when I'm next seeing him. He intimated that he was busy tue/wed/thu/possibly fri/sat all day, which I brushed off at the time but in conjunction with me now not knowing when I'll next see him feels a bit odd. He used to set up the next date right after the last one. I've initiated contact more recently and am usually the one to text after dates to say I had a lovely time. But this time I didn't and he didn't either. It's on the 2nd day of no contact now and after a date with some deep chats about our families etc and lots of affection it just feels a bit off.
I don't want to be needy etc, or mess this up. I don't know what the normal level of contact is at this point or how they should be between dates. When I am with him it's great then it's like whenever we get slightly closer he disappears for 1-2 days and comes back totally neutral. I'm getting worried and it's awful! Friends I have asked have said "yeah that's bit weird" that he hasn't been in touch.
Any opinions very welcome!
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What's up with this guy?
Princessmollygolly · 31/01/2017 10:40
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