I'm in a relatively new relationship of a few months. DP has never given me any reason not to trust him but there is just this one girl I see all the time popping up on his Facebook and Twitter, they like each others posts and they talk alot on Twitter, nothing that has lead me to be suspicious until yesterday.
DP is currently abroad and he has had an article published in a magazine while he has been away. He had asked me to buy a copy for him, fair enough. Then this girl posted on social media saying I've received a mission from ........ (Where my partner is) then a couple of hours later posted a photo of his article with the caption ready for you when you get back.
This has lead me to think they talk outside of what I see on social media as until she posted yesterday there has had been no mention of his article on social media for her to otherwise know about it and the way she put 'mission recieved' he has obviously asked her to go and buy it.
I haven't said anything to him about it, he doesn't know I can see her posts as I'm not friends with her but she has a public profile.
From her previous posts I can see they have been on days out together, they share a hobby and have been to events together with regards to that but nothing else from what I can see.
Although last weekend she posted she was bored and he commented come out to .........(where he is) for the weekend. I thought it was a joke but maybe it wasn't?
Not sure if I'm loosing some clarity and reading too much into this or if it's something that needs addressing.
As far as I know she isn't aware I am in a relationship with him, there is no mention of me on any of his social media and alot of his recent posts he gets in there that he is alone abroad.
I keep thinking that if this was a guy he was taking to I wouldn't have a problem with it but because it's a girl I do, is this unfair? He isn't cheating on me as before he went away we spent too much time together for him to be seeing anyone else and she doesn't live locally, are they just friends or is it more than that? We are early forties if that bares any resemblance.
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Am I reading too much into this?
BWF1 · 16/01/2017 11:22
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