My marriage has just petered out. It's been failing for a while, and I just don't have the energy to go on anymore.
We have had sex once this year. We row a lot. I feel very lonely and abandoned within the relationship.
He's a good man, and he loves me. I love him too. But we just can't seem to make it work. He works long hours, we've just relocated for the third time in five years for his job. I am exhausted, both by all the moving and the emotional absence at home.
We still have our flat in our last location- it needed some building work finishing before we sold it, and his employer have rented us somewhere for a year in the new location.
I just want to go home, even if it is all plastic sheeting and dust. I want peace and quiet and a break from all the fighting. I want to be somewhere that I actually know a few people and have familiar surroundings. Not be in the middle of nowhere , somewhere I know no-one and nothing, spending too much time on my own because he has a new workload to handle and is too knackered when he's not working to do anything.
I just want to pack a bag and hop back on the train, it'll take about 4 or 5 hours to get back.
How do I do it? Do I just go? I don't want to tell him in advance because it'll just mean another fight. He's got a work Xmas party all afternoon. Am I just gone when he gets back. Do I leave a note, text him when I get back.
I don't know if I am leaving because I want to leave for good, or just to get some space, or even just to communicate how done in I am. I don't know what to do.
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I want to leave
KittensXmasTrifle · 16/12/2016 11:42
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