My son is behaving dreadfully, his girlfriend has spoken to his dad and it appears his behaviour is pretty appalling at times and getting worse. My instinct is to go round to his house tomorrow and tear a strip off him. With his dad. His dad is concerned son will think we are ganging up on him, I think good, we are he deserves it . He is also concerned sons girlfriend will be unhappy as she asked him not to say anything.
Thing is, this situation has occurred before, she has said things previously and asked us not to say anything to him. However this cannot continue anymore.
Will we make things worse? I am more concerned about her feelings than his, However I think she needs someone to intervene, and I think if she keeps telling his dad what's going on she is surely hoping we will help her in some way, or at least try!
I am on my phone so slow.
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Can I interfere in my sons relationship?
statetrooperstacey · 29/10/2016 22:26
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