I've been seeing someone on and off for two years. We've had big break ups but always end up back together.
He spends time with me and my children, who are unaware of any break ups, and can be loving and sweet and thoughtful.
But... I have never met any of his family, and if I bring it up it usually ends in an argument. There is always an excuse as to why it hasn't happened.
I asked him about marriage and he said he doesn't see if as important - even though he's been engaged twice before. Is it just that he doesn't want to marry me?
He has said for a year now that we'll live together when we're more settled - but that day never comes.
Do I cut my losses? Security is important to me and I have none with him.
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Oldname · 22/08/2016 21:24
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