Hello,
New to this so feel a bit nervous.
My situation.....have been with my partner ( not married ) for 23 years and have 2 children 8 and 4.
He tells me that he's not in love with me anymore and no one else is involved however I know that there is.
I am absolutely heartbroken, he has been my best friend for 23 years, we've shared everything together and I have always been 100% loyal and honest.
He says he cares for me but doesn't fancy me anymore, he says that he wants to remain living here for the children. He comes home from work does bedtime routine then just goes out to the other womens house, doesn't tell me that he is going out he just leaves and comes back very late or on a Friday goes 'out ' straight from work and doesn't come home until 4:00 am . while he is here there are no raised voices or arguments , He does ignore me though and is quite rude but I don't react. In fact for the last 23 years we've never really had a cross word .
He doesn't know that I know about the other woman, he is having his cake and eat it and it's frustrating me.
I'm aware of how i stand with the house , 50% each but I maybe awarded more with having the children with me. They are going to be heartbroken but I suppose I'm trying to get my head around it so I can be strong for them when the time comes to telling them.
Needing advice upon how to tell him that I know about the other women , to stop lying to me and how to get him to move out.
. Think I want him to move out, if he wants to be with her why doesn't he just go and live with her!!
He is an idiot for losing his family!!!
If you have got this far thanks for reading and any advice would be welcome
Thank you
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