I need to get myself out of a really bad situation. I was completely naive and started seeing a married man who I thought was separated from his wife. When I first met him I thought he was in the process of leaving. He told me they had separate rooms, no intimacy or real relationship. As the months have gone on I've realised that although this may be true, he is still in a relationship with her, he has no intention of leaving but of course is quite happy to carry on seeing me as well.
I admit I was really really naive and I've done a really stupid thing and got involved because I really liked him and we get on so well.
His wife doesn't deserve to be lied to. I told him how upsetting this is for me, that he needs to sort things out either way with his wife and he's said he can't deal with my current mood so that may mean no further contact.
I know this is wrong but I liked him so much and I'm so upset. I can't seem to deal with myself. What's wrong with me?
How do I move on? Say what you like, I probably deserve it.
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Please help me leave him without trashing my life
somanyflowers · 13/07/2015 21:56
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