To cut a long story short. I have been dating this guy for 3 months now. It was his 27th birthday yesterday. For days I have been telling him I would cook him a special meal and that I was looking forward to spoiling him.
I had specially arranged for leave from work so I could buy him a special present, and prepare a nice romantic meal for that evening. With of course some love afterwards.
By 6 o'clock I had set the table, put on the candles and food was ready. Six becomes 7 becomes 8 and still he hasn't come over. He hasn't phoned so of course I start worrying. I phone him but no answer. Finally he phones me at 11, and I can clearly hear he is as drunk as he is able to get.
His excuse? It was his regular poker evening with the boys. I was absolutely devastated he could treat me like this. I have developed real feelings for him but if it is like this now, what will he be like further down the road.
I feel he doesn't care. I go out of me way to do things for him, whether it be cooking, helping to clean his flat, as well as do his washing and ironing.
What have I done wrong to deserve this.
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My boyfriend doesn't care - what have I done wrong
IamSoUnhappy14 · 23/06/2015 17:43
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