Sorry if this turns into a bit of a novel:
Have been with DP 5 years, love him to pieces - we're really happy together. He makes me laugh everyday and is genuinely the most kind and caring person I know.
There are things he does which irk me, which is natural. I'm sure I irritate him in a minor way from time to time.
However, a week or two before my period, for 2 - 3 days, I get mind-bending rage at him, lose my temper, resent everything he does/says, am generally evil (completely overreact and say horrible things) and have near panic attacks that we are not right for each other and I'm making a huge mistake. This is followed almost immediately by massive guilt, fear of losing him and more panic.
His crimes are as follows:
He will occasionally leave clothes in the bathroom (on the floor), instead of putting them away immediately, as I would do.
He also leaves empty toilet rolls lying around rather than change the toilet roll properly.
Forgets on rare occasions to clean the toilet bowl after himself. Or doesn't do it as well as I would like.
He seems incapable of eating cereal and milk with out slopping it about (bringing the spoon up to his mouth before the milk has fully stopped running off it - or he will lift the bowl up to just under his chin and spoon from there - noisy and unattractive to watch)
Just typing that has given me the rage again. He is a lovely man. I am an evil, hormonal banshee.
The moodswings are completely OTT and ridiculous and DP gets the full force of my PMT rage every month
I've looked on the health boards and there seem to be a few medical things I could try but I want to know what I can do practically - all I can think of is leaving the house and only coming back to sleep on those days, which is not going to work.
I was thinking I can mark the days on the calendar so he knows to go out with his mates or keep himself busy (away from me!) or something?
AIBU? Any suggestions? Is it just me?!
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Help me deal with moodswings without destroying DP
WrathoftheBanshee · 22/06/2015 10:36
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