My DP and I have been together nearly 10 years.
In the beginning we had a lot of raunchy sex, which was fine. Over time, I feel I need more intimacy, and 'middle of the night' sex, which doesn't involve me dressing up and wearing heels. I don't mind that, but don't feel like doing it all the time!
The other day, we had sex - his kind - without even kissing - this kind of 'intercourse' doesn't really do it for me.
I keep bringing it up, as we have a good communicative relationship, and I also keep sliding over to him in the middle of the night to initiate some more romantic style lovin', but he really is not up for my kind of sex. Doesn't fancy it, or happens to be too tired...
I personally think he has intimacy issues, although I can't get to the bottom of them, or work out why that would be.
I have a niggling feeling he can't handle a 'real woman' - without all the trimmings, but I don't know if I'm over analysing this.
Any thoughts, anyone?
Should I keep analysing?
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What kind of sex is this?
writergirl · 20/11/2014 13:10
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