Hi everyone, sorry in advance if I sound childish but would just like to know if anyone else in similar position, or what their opinion and advice is. Il try keep it short.
I'm 22 years old and other half is 23 next month. We've been together 6 & a half years!! We went to secondary school together. Had a little boy together who is now 2.5 years old. Bought a house together last year. Found out last week that I'm expecting again. I told him the news and he is very excited. I'm excited too but the fact I work in an office 2 days a week and at university the other two days it's daugnting as I'm going to have to finish my second year and then take a year out (luckily not due till 5th july).
SO I want to get married. Well at least be engaged so I know the commitment is there, I can eventually plan my dream wedding and most importantly have the same surname as my children. I've hinted about marriage a lot recently and he doesn't respond with much. Just says it's not really his thing and that a piece of paper doesn't mean anything and he would hate the attention. So yeah I didn't like that response. Now I'm pregnant with baby number 2 I can't help but feel I want to be "official". So a few nights ago I asked him out right, 'do you think we will ever get married? It is really important to me especially with the baby on the way'. His response was basically "One day yes but not at the moment. We will be engaged eventually but were still only 22 and I don't want to get in engaged knowing that we won't get married for years".
I don't at all believe him. It's not like we have no money to plan a wedding he has a good job and I do okay working part time. I just feel like he doesn't want to and how long I am expected to wait? As you can all See its very important to me! rant over - it has been a long day x
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Bought a house, 1 child, expecting, together 6+ years.. Still no engagement
AliceC92 · 05/11/2014 21:10
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