I am freeeeeee!!!
People who have been betrayed, left, mistreated, you think you miss the lying piece of shit you lived with but you don't. You miss a life you thought you had and a future you'd planned to have. Nasty people are not worth missing. I hope soon you wipe away the tears and make it up off the floor and soar into the future you get to create. We nice honest decent people must not let those fuckers steal any more of our greatness or even a second of our time on this earth. I've had an appalling marriage but I'm going to have an awesome life.
I posted this on another forum but owe Mumsnet a great deal for getting me up off the floor over Christmas when stbx twat husband left and so am reposting here as a bit of encouragement and to give a teeny tiny bit back to the Mumsnet family:
I’m off to a party tonight. This valentine’s is a celebration of me loving me.
This weekend you do something. Get out and DO something! Fuck last year. The time is now!!!! We get to create our own valentine’s traditions and have fun. Do not lament the past. Relish a future of self love. That is what valentine’s day will be for me now. Don’t buy into that whole couples, flowers, dinner, blah blah. Make it yours. Turn this commercial money making day into a thing of Love. Love you. Take you out. Love this new thing we are in. And one day when we are ready, we might even let a special someone into our valentine’s day lovefest. And that, will be a beautiful thing.
Love and hugs to all. x
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Thank fuck he's gone. Happy valentine's to the newly single.
divorcedtobe · 14/02/2014 20:23
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