I've been married for ten years and have 7 yr old child. My husband hads always looked at porn, he's never admitted it but I've found photos on the computer. I've let it go as it's never caused a problem. I didn't like it but I could deal with it.
However last year I caught him taking photos of me in the shower. I didn't tell him i had seen him as I thought/ hoped he might tell me. He didn't. I saw the photos on the camera. They had been deleted the next time I looked. I felt sick and violated but somehow couldn't tell him I knew.
A few months later I was checking emails on his
phone and something made me look at his
photos. I found some taken of me, asleep on the sofa, photos of my cleavage. There was also
video footages of me getting undressed in the
bedroom the night before. Disgusted, I challenged him that night when he tried to initiate sex. We had big row, he promised the photos were not posted on the Internet, and thathe didn't kknow why he'd done it.
We agreed to try and move on, and he promised things would get better if I could learn to trust him again. Said he was sorry blah blah.....
Anyhow fast forwarded to now and I've just found some photos of me taken on our recent holiday, me asleep on the sunbed, photos of my bottom, and my breasts. I feel sick. I can't trust him anymore but I know he loves me. He's a great husband and dad in all other respects but I can't bear the thought of him touching me now. Don't know what to do.
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husband taking nude photos of me without my consent
tomsmum08 · 19/11/2013 11:48
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