I don't want to be the almighty Miss Paranoia but I've just stumbled across this facebook conversation. DP was at my house last night and was using my laptop. He must have closed it down without logging out of facebook and not realised he would still be logged in next time I opened it up again. I admit, I was nosy when it opened on his profile and so looked at his private messages (a bit of history here with innapropriate texting of a girl from work last year, hence the nosyness). So anyway I'll just repeat part of the convo here and you can tell me if I'm being a nutter or not.
Mark: hi Laura thanks for the birthday message , hows you ? xx
Laura: hey Mark, no problem
i am good thanks how are you?
Mark: im good thanks
Laura:good good
Mark: your looking very well in your photos
Laura: awww thankyou i am worried that i have put weight on lol
Mark: you look gorg as always , not same at work with out you
Laura: awww thanks Mark, you do know how to make me feel good
Mark: Yay :) :) hows Work? how long do you have left over there?
Laura: its going good thanks, was supposed to finish in June but staying another 6 months as I like it here
Mark: right i got to go back to work, you keep bing your gorgous and bubbly best, chat again xxxx
Laura: thanks hun take care speak soon xxxxxx
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This is a girl he previously admitted to fancying and bought her a birthday present last year behind my back. I know the convo doesn't sound that bad but is it normal for men to give some OTT compliments about appearance to women from work? This girl is currently in Japan btw.
Previous conversation between the two of them involve no mention of me and when she asked how things are in England, he replied "Same shit, different day". When she left we'd broken up and he told her this. Would it now not be appropriate to mention that we'd got back together since she left?
Or am I being paranoid?
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Is there anything wrong with this Facebook Conversation between DP and 'girl from work'?
GuiltyParty · 26/04/2012 10:48
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