DH gets terribly excited and slightly hysterical about everyday stuff.
Example -
DH: "I've just downloaded every single episode of "On the Buses"! ! EVERY SINGLE EPISODE!! Isn't that just amazing? That's incredible isn't it? How amazing is that?
MrsF: That's nice.
DH: We can watch them all tonight if you like!! Wouldn't you like that? We can have some tea and those biscuits we bought!!
MRsF: Errm, well, we'll see - I might have other things to do....
DH: Oh! I see! That's great isn't it! I just thought we might have a lovely evening cuddled up on the sofa together and you're not interested. Well thanks. I know where I stand then don't I?
I don't fake the same level of enthusiasm he goes into a terrible huffy sulk and can turn quite nasty. At best, I get accused of having so sense of humour/romance/sensitivity and at worst, of displaying hostility and contempt towards him. I confess I do find this behaviour needy, attention seeking and deeply irritating and sometimes find it hard to hide my annoyance. I just can't stand all the squealing like a girl and jumping up and down about the purchase of a packet of bourbon biscuits or watching bad 70's TV. Unfortunately his behaviour is now also being picked up on and criticised by my 15 year old DS, who has ASD and can be extremely blunt.
I passed my driving theory test today. I am, as you might imagine, rather pleased with myself, but it really wasn't very hard. Ever since I got home DH has been running into the room squealing, grabbing and squeezing me (very roughly) trying to pick me up (I am a 14 stone 6-footer ) and shouting "You've passed! You've passed! at the top of his voice. I had to ask him to chill our please, and now he is acting very offended and hurt.
Am I a total bitch? I feel guilty (again) for not matching his mood-swings. It's nice that he is so pleased for me, but honestly.
WWYD?
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Is this behaviour a bit weird and inappropriate or am I just a total biatch?
MrsFlittersnoop · 25/08/2011 15:09
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