Hi everyone,
We are awaiting for our license to alter for our flat renovation. We've found a builder through a friend's recommendation who offered a competitive price and has pointed out a few structural issues that even our architect hadn't thought of. So we are quite thankful for that.
However, our license to alter is taking quite some time. Mainly because we are waiting for access to the flat above and below us, and for the managing company of the buildings to approve our structural calculations.
In hindsight, we probably should've waited until we got approval before looking for a builder.
Now, our builder (we haven't signed any contract) has been saying for 2-3 weeks now, he wants to start "next week". We've also asked him for some paper work which he hasn't done yet. He keeps saying he hasn't got any jobs lined up and is "waiting" for us and wants to start ASAP - but drags his feet on the paper work we require from him. Whenever we tell him something new came up from the management company (ie. more surveys, or more paper work), he gets flustered and says "I thought we were starting next week??" and stuff like that. 3 weeks ago he even said he may have to pull out if nothing "starts" in a week....
He's making me feel really pressured and stressed, as if pressure from the managing company/surveyor/engineer's request isn't enough to deal with.
I had my first emotional breakdown of this renovation yesterday.
Does anyone have advice on what's the best way to deal with this sort of behaviour?
And would it be reasonable to pay him a "holding" fee - for him to "wait" for us?? But we don't know how long it'll take.. could be 1-2 weeks.could be 3-4..
There are days I just want to no longer use him, but his price is competitive and he has really found out structural things that our architect's missed...
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Pushy builder - feeling pressured - how to deal??
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Audrey0989 · 15/05/2015 13:21
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