...okay I am feeling a bit down about my ds1. I went to see his teacher yesterday and whilst waiting for her, I took a look at the 'groups' the kids are in. He's in the 2nd from bottom in reading and maths. I'm trying not to let it bother me, but it is...mostly because we live in a very deprived area. The other kids (there's only about 4 in the class) who come from similar families to ours are all in the top 2 groups (of 6/7 groups). So basically, the kids we went to toddler group with, and NCT bumps and babies etc. are all doing really well, but my ds isn't. I feel like: what did I do wrong? Or what is wrong with him? I keep trying to find out if there's something wrong with him, but maybe it's just to make me feel better because I haven't done what I should have done with him, which would have helped him out at school. It's really bugging me. My Mum keeps pointing out that he's made a lot of progress this year, but so have the other kids, to the point that I think he's around a year behind them. He's also left out socially, which I can empathise with, as I was too BUT I always got my self esteem from being top of the class, so it makes it harder for me to accept that my son is not even average and I'm not sure where/ how to help him feel good about himself.
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MerryMarigold · 08/02/2012 22:09
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