DD1 (age 12) has an awful fungal infection on her scalp. Her whole scalp has been covered in massive bumps and flakes of rough skin. It's being treated - she's taking an oral medication to fight the infection and we're having to oil her head and wash it every night with medicated shampoo. It's definitely improving, but in order for it to get better, all the flakes have to come off her head - this makes it look like she has terrible dandruff and she's really self-conscious about it. Someone commented on it yesterday, asking her if she had crackers in her hair and she told me last night that she wasn't going to school today. I made her go in - said she could only stay home if she was actually ill and today she's come home even more upset because someone else laughed at her today.
Even more distressingly, when I try to brush out, or pick out the flakes, huge clumps of her hair come out in my hands - she has noticeable bald patches now and she used to have such gorgeous long, thick hair. She was already finding year 8 tough, with a few friendship issues, which have been sorted for now but this isn't helping her confidence at all.
Am I doing the right thing in making her go to school? It's only three more days till half term and I'm now wavering as to whether to let her stay home. I'm considering giving the school a call and talking to them about the situation, maybe asking them to send work home - or am I over-reacting and she should just stick it out until half term?
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tkband3 · 20/10/2015 16:57
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