Since finding out I’m pregnant DH and I have been adamant we want to stay team yellow. He still is 100% but as the weeks have passed I’ve been wavering more and more, to the point where last week I booked a private sexing scan during a moment of weakness when I thought I wanted to find out the sex rather than staying team yellow. Since booking it I changed my mind (again!) but went to the scan which was this week anyway so as not to waste money as they don't give refunds. I asked them to find out the sex but not tell me or DH and instead write in on a piece of paper and put it in a sealed envelope (they told us when to look anyway at the appropriate times when they were doing the scan). So now I have an envelope in my house burning a hole in my wardrobe that contains the sex of my unborn child.
There are obviously more important things in life to worry about and I feel so silly, but it's driving me crazy, mainly because I can’t make my mind up either way. Just when I think I’m sure of myself and my decision I change my mind. On the one hand I would LOVE a surprise at birth and on the other hand I need to know NOW. I found out with my DS and was totally happy and sold on my decision which is a stark contrast to how I feel now. This may be our last baby and I don’t want to regret not ever having that experience of finding out at birth...but I'm literally dreaming about opening that envelope every night in my sleep! I’m wondering if anyone else can offer some fresh insight or has ever been in this position? (probably not because you’re all sane!)
Oh and I’m 16 and a bit weeks pregnant so a long way off giving birth!
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I have the sex of my baby in an envelope and it's driving me crazy!
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rollerskaterdata · 14/12/2018 20:45
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