I can't do this any more. I thought things were ok or getting better, i've been doing therapy, going into work and almost feeling human or at least neutral or numb to anxious. Now, out of the blue all my fears and feelings are back. The GP can't see me til Friday which is an improvement at least on never which it was before, (not joking, live in East Finchley and seems impossible to ever be seen) the team I am seeing at UCLH tmrw can't do prescriptions and I am spending 500 pounds we 100% do not have to see someone privately tomorrow morning in hope he can do something but honestly no idea what as already in therapy and last GP told me, word for word, that any meds in pregnancy would be poison. I am so, so sure I have harmed this baby beyond hope with all my horrible stupid slef induglent feelings and I am really really trying to fix myself but keep failing and so sorry for all my friends family and poor poor dh. I can't bear for his life to be ruined by forever being married to this mess and then to take responsibility for raising a child who has problems I have caused and cannot take care of as I know I will be such a mess. Only thing can think to do is end it but don't think work life insurance applies in these cases and he would be on his own and then without a house and it would break his heart and my mother so can't see what to do. am beyond desperate and can't see any way out. Samaritans are so kind but really not able to help obviously as this is all hopeless. No idea why even posting here other than that everyone has been so kind before. Got self into this stupid anxiety cycle from the start by being irresponsible and just so so full of regret, remorse and self loathing I really can't go on. What can I do?
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