Cheeky little cow

[FabIsGoingToGetFit]

Just thinking it about my 6 year old. I wouldn't say it to her.

Just about to have tea and she just said she wouldn't tell me as I don't listen as I don't care about her.

I know she is just being a madam and knows I love her but it still hurts.

I have come upstairs and left dh to sort them out.

Ds1 just came in but I sent him away as he started it.

[Compost]

wouldn't tell you what?

[FranSanDisco]

Why are you taking it out on your ds1? It's your dd you need to speak to. Your ds didn't make her say what she said. Tell your dd how she has made you feel.

[FabIsGoingToGetFit]

DS1 has hurt her according to her, he denies it. So Dh said here we go again as they have been lying a fair bit. She then said that, I expect she was going to take about 3 weeks to tell me what had gone on.

[FabIsGoingToGetFit]

I am not taking it out on ds1.

[FranSanDisco]

You said you sent him away. Maybe he wanted to talk to you? Stop sulking and deal with your children.

[compo]

All sounds pretty typical bank holiday cooped up together stuff to me!
Open the wine and have a breather

[FabIsGoingToGetFit]

Of behave. I am not sulking.

Every fucking time I post about my kids behaviour the boot gets kicked in about how I am in the wrong.

compo - I gave wine up!

[WhiteNoise]

Nooo you in RIGHT to not tell her what you think!

I have called mine little shits many times today in my head

OFten hard to know what they want if they are laying into each other alot.

Deep breath and turn some music on (or up)

[smallishsheep]

That you think of your 6 year old liek this

[FabIsGoingToGetFit]

Oh ffs. It is a one off.

I came on here to post it out of my system so I could move on.

Must be great to be so fucking perfect.

[FabIsGoingToGetFit]

Thanks WN .

[WhiteNoise]

fab - i was agreeing with you.

[WhiteNoise]

oh x posts

[ItsAllaBitNoisy]

"Of behave. I am not sulking.

Every fucking time I post about my kids behaviour the boot gets kicked in about how I am in the wrong."

So listen to the advice given then.

[FabIsGoingToGetFit]

you clearly have no idea, itsallabitnoisy.

[FabIsGoingToGetFit]

And the only advice I can see is to drink wine and put on some music. Which is fine. I just wanted to rant.

[smallishsheep]

There's a difference between venting and calling a six year old a 'cheeky little cow' though fab. There is no need whatsoever for that

[WhiteNoise]

Can you all seriously say that you have never reached the end of your rope with your kids and just felt like screaming?

[WhiteNoise]

She didn't call her 6 year old anything, she posted here instead

[ditavionteased]

well if it helps I havbe been feeling like this about dd1 all day, she is pushing every button she can find at the minute. much sympathy, vent away, isn't it better to vent on herre than be pushing to actually saying it.

[FabIsGoingToGetFit]

I didn't call her anything!

I posted on here instead, like lots of other people do.

[juneybean]

Some 6 year olds are cheeky little cows though lol No harm in thinking it...

[FabIsGoingToGetFit]

Thanks dita.

DH is very upset too so that makes me more .

[MollieO]

Sounds like normal 6 yr old behaviour. Be grateful that you have someone else who can step in and diffuse the situation (ie your dh). Not all of us do.

[PandaEis]

fab FWIW i think you did better posting here and not actually saying it in real life to your DD! what is this forum if not for posting the things you wouldnt say out loud?? i call my FOUR year old DD the same in my head sometimes it is how you do it in real life that counts! not a rant on an anonymous forum!!

i suggest those who disagree, pull the stick out of the rectum and lighten up