One of the biggest upsets since having my kids, is just how smug and judgemental other parents can be.
A recent example - my dd (age 5) has had to have 2 fillings, I mentioned this in conversation to some other mums and was made to feel like I had FAILED as a mother, and dd should be taken into care!
Other examples are regarding sleep/potty training/feeding etcetc.
Why can't we offer each other more support and allow children and parents to develop at their own pace, as opposed to assuming that we are doing it all right and everyone else is wrong?
I am sure in my mothers day there was much more community support, but then again they didn't have a million books and mass media telling them how they should be doing things!
(apologies, rant over)
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unicorn · 28/01/2005 23:45
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