He's 7, about to start a low dose of Ritalin to help him focus. School feedback prompted this and I completely agree.
His dad (my ex) lets him sit for hours with electronics to shut him up on the occassions he has him. I take DCs out, spend time with him talking, so I get all his anger when he has his moments.
There are times when I feel so alone and desperately don't want the hard work any more. I work part time, see friends, have dated, but having a child that turns into an inferno of anger and can't focus is really tiring. My DD (11) tries to help and has managed to do well at school and socially despite the stress at home. I feel for her, she just wants normality!
Sometimes, when he is flaming mad and I have shown patience for ages, I tell him that I don't love nor want him anymore. Often, like now I have to walk away and have a moment to rest. I'm fed up of seeing my friend's DCs having straight forward days out and I'm dealing with a DC that can't follow basic social ques or instructions and rages over something that doesn't even make sense.
Then I feel guilty as he can be a lovely and caring boy when he's not in a negative 'moment'. Then I think maybe it's just me and someone else could do better
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Feel guilty that sometimes I don't want my ADHD son. Anyone else feel this?
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LanaDReye · 31/07/2017 17:50
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