Just chat really.
My pregnant friend recenty asked me what it is REALLY like having kids (I have two). So I told her the truth about how I have no 'me' time whatsoever as 1yr old does not nap, or go to bed until 9pm. I am always with children/child as no help from relatives. At weekends I get a few hours if my DH takes them, but that's usually spent catching up on chores.
Then I saw the look on her face. She told me I was scaring her and said: "Well as long as I get to work from home, that's the important thing". I think I involuntarily laughed/scoffed before pulling my face back into a serious expression (because she was defo very serious about this). I back-tracked and said it would be OK for her, because "remember I have two kids, which is harder".
Inside I am remembering how demanding a baby is and wondering whether she will realistically be able to continue her quite demanding home-working position, whilst also looking after a child at home. I did not want to be the person being negative at a time when she is excited and positive about being a work-at-home-mum.
I can also remember completely under-estimating how time consuming raising children would be. I feel as if my life has sort-of been put on hold. If anyone has worked out how to 'keep themselves going' whilst having two kids and no help, any advice would be appreciated!
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CookingCabbage · 17/12/2016 17:48
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