....and so many days it seems....
I have gone round and round in circles trying to work out what I have done wrong. They whine, they scream, they fight the WHOLE time. When we discipline them they hurl abuse at us. I just want to run away most days. DH and I sit there in exhausted silence most evenings when they are in bed.
It feels like we can't do anything normal. I dread social occasions. DD1 age 8 has been to a lot of playdates and sleepovers so I felt this week I had to reciprocate. I think we must have traumatised her friend yesterday. They fought and screamed at each other and when I sent 2 of the 3 upstairs after several warnings DS threw the laptop and DD2 screamed for an hour until she fell asleep.
Pretty much every day is like that. We wanted children and now we have everything we wanted and it's horrendous. I know that's a terrible thing to say and we're lucky to have 3 healthy children but honestly we can't cope with them.
This isn't normal is it? I just think we much have done something really wrong or can you just get 3 really challenging personalities?
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So ashamed of my children today....
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feellikerunning · 21/12/2010 16:07
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