nursery parent evening.
told me they have been doing emotion dolls in particular recently to bring DS and of his shell.
any of the upsetting emotions sad,angry,worried...... every single one of these he keeps saying he feels like that "when daddy shouts at me" or "when daddy gets me into trouble"
and he's wetting himself during a particular thing they do. and i can identify its to do with what happens when doing same activity at his dads.
and he's developing an over critical view in himself. and being very hard on himself sometimes.
i know the staff very well. and they felt the need to have a word with me. they said they are certain these issues all come from a parent being very strict, restricting play and giving him a very hard time when he fails to do simple things like wets himself or eats dinner too slowly.
and they had identified it was his dad from the emotion dolls
luckily they say all the happy emotion he named me. and when asked why i made him happy he simply responded "coz she's my mum"
and they say whenever in same room as dd he's a million times better.
so..... tried to speak to ex and he simply says that this is the way he is.. and thats how he expects his children to act/be treated
wtf can i do to try and get him to ease up on the lad. he's such a sensitive wee soul.
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ridingjoker · 01/08/2009 08:38
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