Hi
Contact has been fraught for 18 months since separation. I have advised my ex via emails of upset and distress he has caused to the children on many occasions . He doesn't respond. He has a lot of issues. He has previously threatened to file to court for CAO but they were empty threats. No overnight contact for more than a year. Younger child is 12.5 and recently told him to his face that she was very angry and upset with him and due to his response she told him she does not want to see him any more.
He has appointed a FFJ type 'just for men' solicitor saying he will file to court if I do not agree to a long list of demands including overnight contact every other weekend, holidays abroad etc. Older child is 18 so can make their own mind up and has very occasional brief contact. He has given 14 days for me to agree with his terms or he will file.
I have booked to see my solicitor. But I am seeking a view on whether the court will force contact on a bright articulate child who is 12 years and 8 months. His solicitor claims he has no idea why contact has stopped and does not believe it is the child's wishes. Even though she told him to his face.
Thanks in advance if anyone can offer a view on the range of possible outcomes. There are good reasons why contact has diminished and now stopped.
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kittybiscuits · 11/08/2016 16:01
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