DH and me have known this friend for years and years. We hadnt heard from him in months so i text him.
When he replied he said that he had been very unwell and had been hospitalised with depression and had tried to commit suicide.
I was not shocked by this but heartbroken that he had felt so very low and alone at this time and we were not there for him.
Any way he is recieving appropriate care, help and support from the professionals and i have persuaded him to visit us a couple of times.
He just cries and cries, tells me of his symptoms and the big black hole that he is in. I just dont know what to say to him.
Ive told him this, i have told him how much he means to us, i have told him that we dont care if he wants to come and just cry. He must come and cry,(as long as he doesnt try to eat my cakes) I have just piled positive upon positive to him. Try to look ahead to the future.
By the time he leaves he is definitely in a better mental state,the next time he comes its the same. I dont care about this, i dont care if he comes for the next 10 years saying the same thing, as long as he comes.
Ive googled the title "depression" and not got too many practical suggestions. There are allot of you who post on this thread, how can i help him,what can we do for him.
To add, he lights up a room when he walks in, he really does, i cant tell you what a wonderful person he is.
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Donbean · 27/12/2004 19:44
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