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KingJoffreyLikesJaffaCakes Mon 23-Nov-15 22:50:23

Self harmed for the first time in ages

Out in the rain with pills and water breaking down don't know where to gp

What do i do?

WhyCantIuseTheNameIWant Mon 23-Nov-15 22:54:04

How badly harmed are you?

Where can you go that is safe?

Have you got a friend you trust?

With a fluffy, soft towel...?

RJnomore1 Mon 23-Nov-15 22:56:13

Ok joff deep breath. Immediate first - how did you self harm, is there an immediate danger eg a deep cut?

We are here x

TheoriginalLEM Mon 23-Nov-15 22:56:45

can you get to a&e? call an ambulance

Iliveinalighthousewiththeghost Mon 23-Nov-15 22:57:31

Oh Joffery. You have my hand. I've suffered from self harming in the past.
You've started this thread for us to help you.
What has happened. To lead you to this. You don't havd to answer, of course you don't.
Do you suffer from mh issues. If so I totally understand. Are you on medication. Does your GP know about you self harming. I am so sorry for fireing questions at you, but the more information we have the better equipt we'll be to help you.

hesterton Mon 23-Nov-15 22:57:49

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Catzpyjamas Mon 23-Nov-15 22:58:47

Out in the rain, where? Are you near RL friends? Please go to A&E.

Notmeagain1 Mon 23-Nov-15 22:59:37

Hand holding Joff, can you talk to us.

FattyNinjaOwl Mon 23-Nov-15 23:00:18

OK, we need to know exactly what you have done flowers and you need to get to a&e.

PurpleDaisies Mon 23-Nov-15 23:09:15

Sorry you're having a tough time. You need medical help. Can you get to a and e? flowers

Iliveinalighthousewiththeghost Mon 23-Nov-15 23:13:07

Hope you come back Joffery just so we can find out how you are.
We're all here and we'\re all thinking about you.
And sending you love support comfort and strength.

LoisWilkersonsLastNerve Mon 23-Nov-15 23:13:37

Get to a & e or a friends house if you can. Bloody hell sadflowers

Catzpyjamas Mon 23-Nov-15 23:14:31

Joffrey, I hope you're getting some help right now. If not, please come back and talk here.

MistressMerryWeather Mon 23-Nov-15 23:19:28

Joffrey, my love I have seen you posting here before and I have always found you an incredibly humourious, intelligent and kind poster.

Throw away the pills, empty them out and stand on them then please go somewhere safe, even just get out of the rain.

CassieBearRawr Mon 23-Nov-15 23:19:33

You keep talking. Either us or someone IRL who can help.

Do you need immediate medical attention for your injury? If so A&E. If not do you have somewhere safe you can go?

Iliveinalighthousewiththeghost Mon 23-Nov-15 23:20:56

Lovely words of wisdom Merry Weather.
Indeed Joffery you are absolutley amazing.

MistressMerryWeather Mon 23-Nov-15 23:28:59

She is a gem. We may not have had much close interaction here on MN but I am always nodding along with her posts.

You do not deserve be alone in the rain when you are feeling this way Joff.

We are all here for you, it doesn't matter what happened to get your here, you don't need to explain yourself. Just get somewhere safe.

KreecherTeacher Mon 23-Nov-15 23:37:04

Sorry you're in this place joffrey sad

A lot of people here admire and resoect you so please remember that

Stay safe xx

GiddyOnZackHunt Mon 23-Nov-15 23:47:54

Joffs you dafty. Empty the pills down the nearest drain. Watch them swirl. Where can you go for help? Stop spiraling and talk to MN.

Iliveinalighthousewiththeghost Mon 23-Nov-15 23:50:21

Giddy. You mean well and you seem very kind hearted but with the greatest respect to you.
Shes not being daft, Shes ill, but I know you mean her no harm at all.
But the rest I fully agree with you.

RJnomore1 Mon 23-Nov-15 23:52:24

Jog please talk to us?

RJnomore1 Mon 23-Nov-15 23:53:10

Sorry I can't see what I'm typing so autocorrect is happening - I meant joff

FlowersAndShit Mon 23-Nov-15 23:56:38

Joff please talk to us. Are you ok?

PinkSquash Tue 24-Nov-15 00:04:30

Are you okay Joff? Can you get to somewhere safe please?

Pipestheghost Tue 24-Nov-15 00:09:58

Bloody hell, I hope you've managed to get some help and are somewhere safe Joff flowers

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