Help!! I really need your honest opinions as I am beginning to think myself and DH are complete horrors. MIL and FIL live about an hour and half drive away. So when visiting it really takes up the whole day as 3 hours in car alone. One SIL lives two and half hours away and the other SIL lives in the doorstep. Myself and DH work 6 days a week each. We are not rich but not poor and have a fairly ok lifestyle due to the fact we work hard (we have to) I sometimes work 7 days a week. MIL wants us to visit every Sunday, our only day off. At the moment we go every other week and have one week where we can lie in, go shopping, lunch, see my parents, our grandchildren etc. MIL also wants DH to take annual leave to visit and makes him feel very guilty. Honestly, should we go every week on our day off? Are we being completely selfish and unloving by wanting some down time and ‘us’ time. Local SIL is unemployed by choice and visits most days but is literally a stones throw away
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Happyhappy011 · 12/08/2019 21:33
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